Discovering Self-Discovery

Hey! I’m Elara.

A little about me: I’m a university student in my 20s. I was born and raised in the wonderful state of Florida. I live with my mom, my brother, and some daddy issues :). I also live with my French Bulldog—whom I love. She’s basically my emotional support animal.

I have a passion… well, I have a passion for a lot of things. And if you stick around, you’ll hear about all of them. I love to travel—I’ve studied abroad in Europe, and I’m about to head to Asia for my next exchange. I also love music, specifically k-pop. So, to any delulu baddies, just know, you’re welcome here.

Overall, I’m just figuring out what I want to do with my life and who I want to be.

That’s part of why I started this blog.

Writing has always helped me. I’ve struggled with mental health, body image, identity, self-worth—you name it. But I’ve also experienced healing, growth, and moments of loud ass clarity. This space is a reflection of all of that. A place to write honestly. To be real. To share the lessons I’m still learning in case they help someone else feel a little less alone and a little more understood.

I don’t really have a niche. I’m indecisive, and I’m okay with that. Some days I’ll write about mental health. Other days I’ll share poetry, ramble about career goals, dive into a memory, or reflect on what it means to be human.

I’m not here to pretend I have answers—I’m here to ask questions, to explore, to discover. Maybe you are too.

So if you’re navigating uncertainty, rebuilding, or just trying to understand yourself a little better, I hope this blog gives you something—ambition, new ideas, or simply the feeling that someone out there gets it.

Let’s see where this goes.